A Christmas poem

Twas the day before Christmas

and all through the house

not a Delaney was stirring

not even my spouse.

 

Instead of anxiously awaiting Santa

or playing with her sisters while building a fort

Delaney is back at the doctors

getting more chemo in her port.

 

Today also starts the next cycle of steroids

so lets get ready for the fun

tears, fits of anger, and eating

just about everything under the sun.

 

But as you all already know

Delaney is full of fight

So I’ll put this poem to bed 

by wishing you all a good night!

 

        Okay, I’ll let the lame poem rest.  I just wanted to give you a quick update on how Delaney is doing.  She is doing great!  She has been enjoying her Christmas break and feeling well.  She went into the clinic yesterday and her counts were down.  Unlike the prior stages, this is actually a good thing on this stage.  It means that today she can receive more chemo.  Receiving chemo on Christmas Eve may not sound like a good thing, but it is a lot better than the alternative of being too sick to NOT receive chemo.  

         I think the realization that we are hitting another cancer milestone (first Christmas) has taken its toll on my wife.  The reality is that Delaney has her good days and not so good days, but we still have a long way to go on her little (non) adventure.  However, we are looking forward to keeping our family Christmas traditions alive this season. After today’s treatment, our family will go to church and then come home and allow the kids to open one present each.  The next morning, we’ll wake up early find the coal Santa left for me, remind the kids again why we celebrate Christmas,they open their presents, and then I usually have to remind them about the kids in Africa every time they open a present from me (“What! You don’t like it??? Well the kids in Africa would love to play with kitty litter!”). Then we’ll prove once again how goofy our family is by heading to the movies dressed in our PJ’s.

        I know we sound like a broken record, but we can’t even tell you how much your words of encouragement mean to us.  I want to thank so many of you that reached out to my wife while she was having such a tough time these past couple of weeks just to let her know that you were thinking of her or praying for Delaney.  It is truly humbling when someone you haven’t even met tells you that they have been praying for your family. We wish you and yours a fantastic Christmas filled with love and laughter.

Here is a pic of our little mouse not stirring on the eve of Christmas Eve. Merry Christmas!

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6 thoughts on “A Christmas poem

  1. Tom, thank you for your poem and all the updates and a Mary Christmas to you and all the D-A-M-E-S. ( the first letters of all the females in your house, if you notice)

    Peace and prayers, Mickey & Betty

    ________________________________

  2. I wish the Stafford home a wonderfully blessed Christmas, and the defeat of cancer for your family in 2014. God bless you all, preserve and keep you comforted.

  3. Dear Stafford family…….I live in Phoenix and have been following sweet little Delaney for some time. My daughter Pam Rinker works in the front office at Redstone school and my grandchildren go to school there also. I want to wish you all a blessed and healthy new year. I love the picture of the precious little sleeping mouse. Delaney and you all are always in my prayers. Shirley

    Shirley Mitchell

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