I thought it was a one time thing, so I made a joke that (like almost all of my jokes) wasn’t funny. Some kid at Delaney’s school made a comment asking why was she in the girl’s bathroom, wasn’t she a boy? I told her if that happens again, she should just kick that girl in the nuts (and for the 1000th time, I lost any chance I had at winning the “Father of the Year” award). Unfortunately, it did happen again… and again. It wasn’t just kids in her grade, as some of the older kids started chiming in.
Delaney isn’t one to complain so we didn’t know that she no longer wanted to use the bathroom at her own school. She would basically try to “hold it” while she was at school. After she was unsuccessful, she went from not wanting to go to the bathroom at school, to not wanting to go to school period. This is a kid that loves school so much that when she can’t go due to low cell counts, she is almost in tears. Now, even though she was feeling fine, she was in tears about the thought of having to go school. As parents, this broke our hearts.
Well Mama Bear went down to the school and put an end to that. We are fortunate that Delaney goes to school that is very supportive of her needs (and us). They came up with a solution that works for everyone. She now is allowed to go up to the front office and use their bathroom whenever she needs to. That was over a week ago, and this past week Delaney was back to loving being able to be at school.
We ended that week by going to a place that doesn’t care about if you have hair or not, in fact they are trying to put an end to hair loss due to blood related cancers. It was the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society’s Team in Training kick off party and Delaney was chosen to be an honored hero for the team. As it frequently happens on this cancer ride, I also got another big dose of perspective. While I was feeling down about Delaney’s week, I saw that my friend Desiree was also at the kick off party. She was there to support the leukemia and lymphoma society and besides her warm smile, she was also wearing a pin with the picture of her beautiful baby Melina who lost the battle to leukemia. Desiree is not going to stop supporting until no more parents need to worry about losing their children to cancer. Maybe our week wasn’t so bad afterall.
Anyway, it was great to be at another Team in Training event. I was involved with Team in Training long before Delaney was even born (heck, my personal email starts with tomintraining for a reason). In fact, I met one of my best friends to this day through TnT. So it was fantastic to be there and to hear how much they have done and the progress they have made in the fight to end blood cancers. I’m excited to be supporting my wife and a group of over 10 women who are forming Team in Training’s Cancer Can Kiss my Stache Team. Together these women have a goal of raising over $16,000 for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society and in April will be running a half marathon together. I’m also excited that THEY are out running on this 28 degree day with snow still on the ground, while I am sitting in my warm cozy house offering my “support.” Today’s support, unbeknownst to my wife, comes in the form of an ice bucket (Sorry but I’ve been waiting over 30 years to use that zinger from the Wonder Twins). Actually, today I am showing my support by simply asking for your support. This is only for those that can afford to offer it. Please don’t feel bad if you can’t give at this time. If you are in the situation where you can help with a donation to the leukemia and lymphoma society, remember that no donation is too small as every single dollar helps. I think they will be giving Stacey a team page, but patience isn’t my strength and I really wanted to send this out while she is on her first group run. So If you want to donate towards Stacey’s fundraising goal, here is her link (and THANK YOU!!!): http://pages.teamintraining.org/rm/pltrvrhm14/sstaffoj1t